What’s Expected of Contestants (On Stage, Backstage, and Everywhere in Between)

Pin up contests are about confidence, creativity, and community—but they’re also public, professional events. Clear expectations help everyone feel safe, respected, and supported from load-in to final photos.

This isn’t about being rigid. It’s about creating a space where people can shine without unnecessary stress or drama.

Professionalism Is the Baseline

Pin up contests are usually a multi-day, public-facing event. Contestants are expected to:

  • Be on time for scheduled appearances, rehearsals, and stage calls

  • Follow event schedules and instructions

  • Represent the contest, partners, and community respectfully

  • Understand that you are visible—to the public, media, and future opportunities

You don’t have to be perfect. You do need to be prepared.

Dressing Room & Backstage Etiquette

Backstage should feel supportive, calm, and safe.

That means:

  • No gossip, bullying, or trash talk—especially about other contestants

  • Respecting shared space and personal boundaries

  • Handling wins and losses with grace

  • Remembering that everyone is showing up vulnerable

Not winning is not a failure. Making the space unsafe is.

Social Media & Public Conduct

Your online presence matters before, during, and after the event.

Contestants are expected to:

  • Refrain from public shaming or negative commentary

  • Avoid stirring conflict online or behind the scenes

  • Respect the privacy of fellow contestants, judges, and staff

  • Share excitement without tearing others down

We can hype ourselves without hurting each other.

Working With Judges, Photographers & Partners

Judges and partners are here to support the event—not to be pressured, cornered, or influenced.

Please:

  • Respect boundaries and instructions

  • Avoid lobbying or seeking feedback during the event

  • Treat all partners with courtesy and gratitude

  • Understand that many contribute their time and talent generously

Professional behaviour builds reputation—yours and the community’s.

Accountability & Care

If issues arise, they should be brought to the organizer—not handled through gossip or group chats. Clear communication helps problems get resolved quickly and fairly.

We take community care seriously, and that includes addressing concerns with respect and discretion.

The Bottom Line

This contest exists to celebrate pin-up culture in a way that feels empowering, joyful, and safe.

The expectation isn’t perfection.
It’s kindness.
It’s accountability.
It’s showing up like the powerful, grown-up humans we know you are.

Next up in the series:
How to Decide If a Contest Is the Right Fit for You
(because choosing your stage wisely is part of the glow-up)

— Kiki Lou 💋

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